destiny or free will
*Sexual Assault included in this post
I read the amazing story of that Iranian man on Humans of NY (Highly recommended) and at some point in his story, he mentioned Ferdxowsi’s quote: « Ferdowsi said: « A man cannot escape what is written. » I hate the idea of destiny. There is always a role for us to play. There’s always a choice to be made. »
It was so funny to read those words because literally 24hrs before I had this discussion with my best friend at the Express restaurant about destiny or free will.
For me, I think we all have a destiny and so the big axises are already written. Sometimes, we will lose our way but our destiny will find a way to place us back on, to it.
For him, it was the opposite. He believes you can always make a different choice with your free will and that nothing is written.
But then, I wonder, if nothing is written why should someone be born in a country at war? Why should someone be molested at the age of 5 years old? Why should an innocent child die of leukemia at 10 years old?
Because for me it is impossible to perceive that all of these terrible and unfair things are only based on free will while actually it’s not!
I mean I did not choose to be raped, to marry a husband who was violent and jealous, to have an emotionally unavailable father, the list goes on. But, I believe that I had to experience all of those to become closer and closer to my true self and what my destiny had in mind when I decided to come back on planet Earth.
Because, for me, we are here as an experience but our real place is in the invisible, in the non physical. Sometimes we choose to go back as a human being or it can also be as a horse, for example. I do think that we are experiencing the same teaching life after life. That, at some point, we will master it and we will be done. Like in the video game, we just finish the entire game!
Yes, we can always change our mind and trust me I did. But, deep down, I always came back to what was my destiny. As far away I could go from my path, the Universe found a way to bring me back onto it.
And, maybe that’s why sometimes we think the psychic was a scam because at that moment, they were reading our destiny, our energy. Then, other people were involved, so maybe they also saw somewhere else for a moment!
How I see it, is like a dance, and we embrace different tempos and rhythms but the music will still be the same. It will always guide us to go back to where our alignment is completely aligned with the rhythm of our destiny. That is where this feeling of wholeness exists.
With Love,
Marine Sélénée