Women with a father wound

Women who had emotionally absent fathers that did not really connect to them and/or did not always seem interested in them are more likely to develop hyper independence. Women who have a father wound aren’t usually able to emotionally depend on people because they don’t feel safe enough to trust. They could develop a pattern of being in relationships with men who are emotionally unavailable and unable to show up for them because this reminds them of their father.

Unconsciously there is fantasy that if she can fix this man, she’ll be fixing her father. It would be difficult to walk away from this person and easy to ignore red flags because unconsciously this would be giving up on the fantasy of fixing her father and it would trigger all those feelings of being abandoned by their dad once again.

The good news is, there is a way to consciously work through this. If you’re a woman with a father wound you need to get in touch with your anger, get in touch with your grief, with your disappointment so you can stop projecting it onto your current relationships and choose someone who is right for you. 

Book your session with me now. Let’s explore the grief and pain of your little girl when it all started. Wouldn’t it feel nice to make peace with your past and your first relationship with the masculine? Once you do, you will be ready to deeply know and feel that you are more than enough to attract a man that will see you for who you are. 

With love,

Marine Selenee