By believing in a better foreseeable future without knowing exactly how it will happen on a concrete level. Having faith that it will happen. Trusting that it will find a way and meet you when you least expect it.

Follow your vision, daring to create the life of your dreams. Because in the end, if you keep waiting for the perfect moment, the only thing for sure that you will get, is just aging.

Your story never mattered to me, because I’ve always seen you as whole and complete. When I was with you, I was not in the presence of a broken person. I was with somebody certainly hesitant and lost, but a man or a woman believing in something that they could not identify yet, but for sure could feel it.

When was the last time you felt relieved? When did that heavy weight just drop off your shoulders? This feeling of “Damn life is good!”. The sense of breathing deeper again. 

And, yes sometimes there is a chance that our family won’t understand and as anything that we don’t understand, we have the tendency to reject it. Does it say more about them or us? Them. You will forever belong. Your life will be forever part of a family system and whoever you choose to be, keep in mind that your life was always a gift for the world and your family.

When you start on your healing journey, normally a new way of living will take birth. A way of being more aligned, grounded, and authentic with who you are. Healing is messy. Healing is intense. Healing is unfair. Healing sucks.