Love starts at your conception when your parents are making Love. Normally, it’s an act of Love, an act of openness and creating a life together. It’s sacred. Following this act of love, there is the 9-month of gestation, hearing your mom’s heartbeat, feeling her feelings, eating her food, being an extension of her. You are literally and physically merged with her. If she is okay, you are okay. If she is not okay, you will be feeling it. 

When you commit, you succeed. You achieve something that is dear to your heart. Commitment makes you in charge of your life. You commit to it. You commit to yourself. Commitment makes you an adult. Commitment creates respect. 

When you do a Family Constellations session, you know that you will end a story in order to write a new one. What you might not know is that a new story cannot happen through resentment, anger, frustration or blame. It only happens through peace, love, and kindness towards your acknowledgment and recognition of what was. 

If you want to begin exploring this harmonization, just for now, acknowledge and visualize behind you, the men and women’s lineages of your family. Feel their presence, lean on them, and bow in front of them. When you will feel connected to them, say out loud or silently: “I receive and take from both sides.”

To all of you, who lost their light, it will come back. At first, it’s a glimpse of light. Then it looks more like a disco ball. And then, it’s an inward feeling, breathing deeper, a crack in your heart, finally letting the light enter. It’s when the masculine & feminine re-harmonize after one of them betrayed us.

The exhilaration of Life is to feel alive. To feel connected with ourselves. To feel that we are not living a parallel life to our current life but actually, to merge with it.